The story of intimacy and sexuality in committed modern couples is one that often tells of dwindling desire. In this session, we'll contrast two fundamental, yet opposing human needs: safety and predictability vs. freedom and adventure. We'll probe the ambiguities of love and desire; learn how emotional history shapes sexual fantasies; explore the differences between sexuality and eroticism; map gender similarities and differences within the concept of multiple sexualities; examine infidelity, transparency, and boundaries; plumb the depth, complexity and healing qualities of erotic imagination; discover innovative strategies to unlock blocks and cultivate emotional risks to open up sexual communication. With an eye on the existential, clinical, and ethical, we'll review how assumptions, moral values, and personal experiences influence our therapeutic work.